These pieces are not related to student loan debt, but I still wanted
to share them with my readers here. While I am working on my book,
Higher Ed, Great Debt,
which I just sold to
Seven Stories Press, I have begun to explore, in writing, bigger philosophical and religious topics that I've discussed and contemplated for years.
Here is a snippet of the second essay from a new series over at
Spare Change News. I am covering new terrain, and exploring big themes, such as
lies and truth, love and hate, betrayal and trust, forgiveness and revenge, etc. (The first piece, which was about free will versus destiny, can be read
here).
The following series of essays have been written while teaching ESL
(English as a second Language) classes to adult students from all
corners of the world (this writing exercise began last month, and
continues to be a part of my classes). Each morning, the first class –
that began this project – was required to answer one of two questions.
At first, I was the one to ask the questions, but I quickly turned it
over to the students. Their questions ranged from simple, everyday life
things, like, “Why are you studying English?,” to complex, philosophical
questions, such as, “What are the limits to freedom?” The class would
write for an hour, and I would join them. We would listen to the Gypsy
Kings, U2, Coldplay, Tango, and much more. Once we were through, we
would read our responses aloud, and then have a conversation about each
person’s analysis. It was humbling to hear from people from Saudi
Arabia, Korea, Thailand, Turkey, and elsewhere. All our answers were
motivated by a desire to convey an honest, open response, and everyone
had an earnest desire to share with the others. As mentioned already, I
continue to carry out this exercise with my new classes. It is a
thrilling experience, and when I am away from the classroom during the
weekend, all I can think about is this: “I can’t wait to be back at work
on Monday, so that I can write with all of my students, and then
share!”
As mentioned already, I continue to carry out this exercise with my new
classes. It is a thrilling experience, and when I am away from the
classroom during the weekend, all I can think about is this: “I can’t
wait to be back at work on Monday, so that I can write with all of my
students, and then share!”
“Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only can light do that. Hate
cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.
What is love? This question has been asked throughout the ages by
essentially every civilization. Indeed, philosophers have spent decades
dissecting the idea.
Now, even scientists concern themselves with the question: what is
love? Not only do scientists trouble themselves – doctors and engineers,
teachers and students, peasants and farmers – ask the same question:
what is love? All of them are anxious to know.
When it comes to the scientists, they remain puzzled. Despite our
advancements in technology and science, as well as our hyper-modernism,
the question remains hidden, a riddle that only jesters and those filled
with laughter understand. This very fact, that it can’t seem to be
understood, except by the jesters and jokers (not the most brilliant
minds), makes it all the more powerful. Of course, most of us can
understand romantic love, and I presume many of you in the classroom
have experienced the sensation of falling in love. Perhaps some of you
have even fallen in love at first sight. And, yes, this is possible,
because our beloved scientists have been able to explain the chemical
reasons behind falling in love at first sight. Based upon their
findings, instant love is like a cocaine addict getting a fix. But
instead of a foreign substance, a harmful one at that, love is caused by
the immediate release of oxytocin, vasopressin, and dopamine into the
brain. These chemicals are associated with centers of pleasure in our
mind. While our dear scientists have done a superb job in providing the
causal evidence behind falling in love, they still fail to truly
pinpoint the profound mystery that causes one individual to fall madly
in love with another.
Just as our beloved scientists have difficulty unpacking the mystery,
they also fail to tell us how and why people fall out of love. People,
over time – as we know – fall out of love. It collapses just like that.
This can be particularly painful if one person remains in love, but the
person has, for whatever reason, turned off his heart. It can be a sad
occurrence, and I hope that none of you ever go through that sort of
heartbreak. It can be so severe, that you might find yourself convinced
that you will die. But even if you have or will – and my sincerest
condolences if this happens – experience heartbreak, love is so powerful
that human beings can overcome the loss, move on, and fine new love.
Read the entire piece here.
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